By Joshua Pompey

I’ve tested things out on Tinder, OkCupid, Match, Bumble, and Hinge, and scoured hundreds of profiles in pursuit of the “perfect” dating profile. In this article, I’m going to share with you 20 dating profile examples of men, and I’ll be discussing what works and what doesn’t work on the various dating apps. Some examples: A selfie, a picture of you participating in hobbies, you with a group of friends. If you love to go out dancing and drinking at clubs, show that. If you prefer to stay in reading or watching t.v. At night, you can show that in your photos as well. Pictured are some online dating profile examples to help you out with more tips.

Need some online dating profile examples that will help you to attract the right kind of man online? In this step by step tutorial, you will learn how to transform poorly written profiles into profiles that quality men can’t resist.

Over the past decade I have supervised the creation of over 20,000 profiles. In addition, I have probably read more online dating profiles than any one man should read in a lifetime! Sounds exhausting, right? Luckily for you, all this work has allowed me to acquire a lifetime’s worth of knowledge that I am more than happy to share!

So let’s start today’s lesson by transforming some terribly written profiles into the type of profiles that quality men will be excited to respond to. And if you are looking for more actionable advice after reading this article, I put together a free page filled with some of my best advice on photos, emailing, texting, and more. You can find all this information here

Lesson #1: How to transform the “negative energy profile.”

Let’s start by taking a look at the negative energy profile:

“I’m not here to meet anyone who plays games. And if you are close-minded, sit on the couch all day, or don’t have a job, please don’t message me. I’m not interested.”

While I think we could all agree with desires listed above, the manner in which they are presented create the image of a woman who is negative, possibly high maintenance, and potentially has baggage from previous relationships. Overall, this woman feels like a complete downer.

I know receiving emails from low quality men is frustrating, but listing what you don’t want in men won’t deter them. These low quality men either don’t care or aren’t reading your profile anyway. Ironically, negative lists will only serve to scare away the high quality men that you are trying to attract.

Let’s revise the example above into profile writing that will attract high quality men:

“If you are adventurous, active, and driven, you will definitely have my attention. If you can also make me laugh and love a spontaneous road trip every now and then, even better. It’s a little known fact that I’m an all time great at creating unforgettable road trip memories! You provide the snacks, I’ll take care of the rest! Fair enough, right? 🙂

The revised profile still expresses the same desires (a man who is driven, active, open), but this time, creates the image of a woman who is upbeat, playful, excited, and positive-minded. The personality of this woman shines through, presenting a woman that is infinitely more likable and attractive to a man. Always remember, positive energy attracts positive attention.

Lesson #2: How to transform the “boring and cliche profile.”

An example of the boring and cliche profile:

“My name is Nancy, I currently work as a Sales Director, and I really love what I do.”

If you want to attract a man who is in high demand, you can’t afford to blend in with the competition. While there is nothing inherently bad about the statement above, there is nothing great about it either. The problem is, its ridiculously boring and will instantly make a man’s eyes glaze over. Instead, Nancy should focus on using her occupation to showcase her best personality traits.

Let’s revise the example above:

“For “work” you could find me chasing down all types of new goals as a Sales Director. Not only is my job is exciting at times, but I get to have a whole lot of fun meeting and interacting with all types of incredible people every day! What more could I ask for?

In the new and improved profile example, Nancy uses her occupation to highlight some of her best characteristics. She is social, loves to have fun, challenges herself professionally, and comes across as a positive-minded person who loves life. These are very attractive qualities.

When you write an online dating profile, every word and statement should have a specific purpose. If it doesn’t, it either shouldn’t be there, or needs to be re-written.

Lesson #3: How to transform the “needy and desperate sounding profile”

Let’s now look at an example of the needy and desperate sounding profile:

“I would love nothing more than to finally get off this site. I really want to meet a man who is smart, funny, and has a good job. If you are out there, I hope to hear from you.”

The first statement implies that the writer hasn’t had any luck with online dating. This creates the vibe of a woman who is a bit desperate to meet someone (even if that isn’t accurate). Using the words “really want” and “hope to hear from you” create the image of a woman who is needy (really want) and creates the image of a woman who is just sitting around waiting for a man to rescue her (hope to hear from you). This may not be true at all, but perception is everything.

The better way to write your profile:

“The perfect man for me would love to learn new things, isn’t afraid to let loose and laugh a little, and enjoys achieving new goals as much as I do! Next goal? Adding someone incredible to what is otherwise an extremely fulfilling life!

In the new and improved example, a few subtle changes transform the writer from sounding a bit needy and desperate for a relationship, to a woman who is confident, in control, happy, and overall a much more attractive woman.

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If you’ve been online dating for any amount of time, you’ve seen bad profiles. They’re either sparse, copied from someone more clever, use The Office as a character trait, or are completely blank. Then, you come across the perfect profile. It might be five words, three paragraphs, or a hilarious photo, but either way you’re in stitches. We’ve scoured the internet (and the best dating apps) to pull together a list of some of the funniest dating profiles.

1. The Truth

You’re smart. This ain’t your first rodeo. And You’re not about to fall for the preposterous claims made by so many of the profiles on this site. So here’s a refreshing perspective—the truth.

I pay my mortgage. I wear socks that match. I’m an honest man, with a decent career and strong values. So While I could regale you with stories of my trips to Paris or how I resemble Ryan Gosling…I know that good communication’s a foundation for every relationship. So if we’re on the same wavelength, read on…

2. Exaggeration

I am a rocket scientist. I’ve appeared on the cover of GQ—twice. And after mastering Italian, I became an international super spy. Right now, I’m yachting my way across the Caribbean, stealing top-secret information, and sipping mai tais…shaken, not stirred.

…Okay, fine. I exaggerated *just* a smidge. But I do like a good mai tai and I got a B+ in my 5th grade science class.

3. Blurbs

“He’s a beast…in the kitchen” – Food & Wine

“Our go-to guy for fashion advice” – GQ

“I wish he was my personal trainer.” – The Hulk

“God made him so firemen would have a hero” – every fireman ever

“I’m so glad she swiped right” – your mom

What else do you need to know?

4. J/K!

Married with a baby on the way. Prefer the term “collector” to “hoarder.” Bonus points if you can look after my gerbil collection.

And: J/K! Single consultant who loves surfing. Into daily exercise so I don’t feel guilty when I grab ice cream.

Your turn…Do you prefer swimming, dancing, or a 24-hour Netflix marathon?

5. A Few of My Favorite Things

I like…

The Frito smell of dog paws.

When I randomly decide to call an old friend and they say “I was just thinking about you!”

The way little kids get grumpy and confused when they’re tired.

That moment I get that Bumble BOOM! Message, and know someone I liked is into me too.

6. Goblin

Passionate goblin with 10+ years of experience, seeking to increase profitability for National Goblin Association. At — Goblin headquarters, slashed costs by 32% in 6 months by implementing Bloodletting training across all departments. Cut stockroom waste by 65% with new garbage binging techniques. Skilled in bone cleaning, whispering while in the dark, and proficient in Microsoft office.

7. The Girl You Can Take Home to Your Family

I’m the kinda girl you can take home to your family. I will then get closer to them than you are and we’ll slowly phase you out.

8. Alpha Male

I hope you like alpha males because I’m your guy. That’s right, I’m the whole package. I’ll defend your honor in public, won’t take shit from waiters, and I’ll even get you pregnant, leave, and then come back to eat the child.

9. Christmas Tree

My brother once put me through a Christmas tree wrapping machine then my parents put me in the boot for the ride home.

10. Best Travel Story

I was in New Orleans when the Eagles won the Super Bowl. Long story short, my nipple may or may not have been pierced.

11. Not Down to Earth

I’m not down to earth at al. If you don’t reply to my text I will turn up to your house drunk at 3 o’clock in the morning crying and trying to break in. I hate drinking tea and doing craft. I hate bicycles, the beach, sunshine, and parks. And Cider, I hate Cider.

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12. Definitely Not a Murderer

My self-summary
I’m a fun loving guy and a self-starter who has absolutely no interest in committing murder. I’m looking for love, companionship, or just that one lovely evening (and rest assured that that one lovely evening will absolutely end with you back at your house, safe, and sound!) Let me take you into my magical world of not murdering anyone, ever, for any reason.

What I’m doing with my life
I’ll tell you this right up front: Certainly not murdering ANYONE, least of all you! Beyond that, mostly digging.

13. A Terrible Liar

My self-summary
Here are the quick and dirty facts so you can get back to clicking through my photos: I’m a terrible liar and an excellent +1. You can usually find me managing my investments, hitting the gym, or catching up with a friend over cocktails and tapas. And I’m incredibly judgemental…when it comes to T-bone steaks. Otherwise, I’m pretty easygoing. 😉

What I’m doing with my life
When I’m not in the ER, you can often find me visiting the kind of far flung destination that requires a passport. Remote locations like Santiago or Zanzibar have always spoken to me. But usually it’s in Spanish or Swahili…so I can’t understand a word they’re saying.

14. The Best Thing on the Internet

About Me

Ladies, your time has come. I’m serious – stop reading and message me right away, because I am the best thing that could ever happen to you on the internet. Better than gym selfies. Better than 14 Facebook likes. And even better than kitten GIFs. Okay, okay, maybe not better than those. Because what can top that?

If we’re being honest, I’m probably not really the “best thing” ever. I have falws too. First of all, I don’t have Jon Snow’s flowing locks. I sometimes wash my lights with my darks. And I never ask for directions – ever.

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Maybe you can see past that thought? 😉

As for my career… Well, I got my first taste of what it means to be an entrepreneur when I was a kid, selling 25 cent cups of lemonade and giving away free extra-salty potato chips. I’ve since moved up to buying and selling Internet comapnies, but I still love Lay’s potato chips.

I’m a non-apologetic big city dweller at heart, but that doesn’t stop me from rounding up friends on a beautiful weekend and hitting the ski slopes, or grabbing my mountain bike for some trail riding. And I’m always thinking about my next trip… I hear good things about New Zealand.

As for the woman I’d like to meet… Your friends would describe you as “intelligent,” “ambitious,” and “kleptomaniacal”… Okay, maybe not the last one. And while I love potatoes in most of their forms, “couch potato” isn’t one of them. Physical fitness is important to you, as it is to me. And while you don’t have to host your own NatGeo show, having a few awesome travel stories wouldn’t hurt.

15. Cute and Smart

Respiratory Therapy Student

Cute enough to take your breath away, smart enough to bring it back.

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16. Mat

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I’m just hoping you don’t walk all over me 😉

17. Forever Single

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Will I be single all my life

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